I wanted to post something else but Elohim pressed upon me to post this. 1 Peter 3:5
5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
holy - physically pure, morally blameless or religious. ceremonially consecrated
trusted- wait filled with joy and complete/full confidence in Yahuah
subjection - submit to one's control, yield to his direction
...vs 6 unanxious and unintimidated of what he might do
When you read this let the Ruach Elohim translate this for you and your situation:
My translation from the Ruach Elohim
When I get married I am supposed to have my relationship with Yah first place in my life. Not my husband, so no matter what he does or act with confidence I will know that Yahuah through His Ruach will guide me in how to act and what to do to bring about the victory that Elohim desires for me and my house.

Thank You Ruach Elohim for guiding and teaching me the ways of Yah.
in the name of Yahusha Ha Mashiach.