Shalawam mishpahcah I do apologize if this offended anyone. But on the other hand I don’t think I will apologize for my feelings.

I understand your perspective in this matter. I agree that we (women) should not be silent about those things. Our silence is agreement. I read once that the spirit of homosexuality in men is transferred two ways #1 by being touched inappropriately by a a man and #2 acceptance of the lifestyle by a woman. Some of us women have been a contributor in the spread homosexuality in men. How many mothers, sisters, aunts or female friends have been that ride or die for that brother, male-cousin or male friend that was gay. How many of us wanted them to know that at least one person loved them and was not condemning them for their lifestyle choice? I was one. The day I accepted my brother's lifestyle was the day he came out of the closet and that was the day we could see it. Before then we could not see that he was gay but when we told him we love him regardless and that it was okay was the day that spirit took over and didn't stop until the day it took his life due to consequences of the life style. At first we (me, my mom and sisters) accepted it openly. But it came to a point we started talking against it and wouldn't allow him to bring is friends around but honestly by then it was too late. The biggest thing about it is he hated being the way he was, he hated the other men in that lifestyle but had no spiritual strength (him or us) to be released from it. So, knowing what I know now, it don't have my agreement not ever again. He at birth will always be called he by me and the same for a she.