The Steps to Biblical Forgiveness

Acknowledge and Process the Hurt: Honestly admit the pain caused, bringing these emotions to God rather than suppressing them.
Decide to Obey God: Make a conscious choice to forgive based on biblical commands (e.g., Matthew 6:14-15), rather than waiting for feelings of forgiveness, which may come later.
Release the Offender:
Let go of the desire for revenge, vengeance, and the right to hold the offense against them
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Pray for the Offender: Pray for the person who hurt you, asking for God’s blessing on them (Matthew 5:44).
Remember God's Forgiveness: Reflect on the immense grace and forgiveness you have received from God to help extend it to others.
Set Healthy Boundaries: While forgiveness is mandatory, it does not always mean immediate reconciliation. Set boundaries to protect yourself, especially in abusive situations.
Continue to Forgive: Understand that forgiveness is often a process requiring you to "try again" when painful memories return.